Sunday, September 19, 2010

COR Dream the Future Thoughts

19 September 2010

After considerable thought and discussion,Sandy and I recently decided to change Faith Communities, and joined The Methodist Church of the Resurrection  (COR) in Leawood, KS.  We decided to move our membership to COR on 29 Aug 2010.

This 17,500 member congregation has been a significant change for both of us.  The scale of EVERYTHING related to “church” has just been magnified by more than 50 times.....  We left a congregation where we knew almost every person, and have been immersed in a congregation where we know almost no one.

The church was started in1990 with 4 people and has grown exponentially.  This fall, the church is celebrating its 20th anniversary by attempting to eliminate its capital debt by a special fund-raising campaign.  It is also encouraging people to dream what the next 20 years at COR may entail.  Certainly, the 4 original members had no idea that COR would be like it is today when they started a church in 1990.  It is also very difficult to see what the next 20 years will involve.  One thing I think is universally true: 20 years from now, our world will have changed considerably, and COR will need to change considerably if it is going to continue to thrive.

What will change in the next 20 years?  Technology will have continued to develop in an ever increasing rate.  Most forms of energy will have become very expensive.  (Controlled Nuclear Fusion could reverse this trend.....let’s hope!)   Social problems that have vexed our society and world for millennia will........ probably be the same.   I would like to believe we will have solved some of them, but social problems seem to also evolve as we try to address them.  Moving targets are more difficult to hit.....    

I would love to live in a world where dogmatic fundamentalism will have been finally exposed for what it is: a security blanket for people so they don’t have to think, OR, an effective and intentional control mechanism that adherents use to control followers.  However, it is because a large number of people in the United States choose to follow semi-blindly rather than spend the effort at thinking about their lives, those leaders who espouse fundamentalism will be able to continue controlling the “non-thinkers”.

Bio-engineering is now in its early, formative stage, preparing to make significant impacts on society.  It will also produce some new ethics challenges: How much control should humans exert over natural life?  Is it Okay to create new or modify existing life forms just because you have the ability? What do we do with our experimental mistakes?  The church will be pressed to address these and other new ethics problems in the next twenty years. Just like all other tools of significant power, bio-engineering will have the ability to be a formidable asset AND liability.

Electronic technology will continue to develop at an even more increasing rate.  Personal Digital Assistants have evolved into smart phones, that will evolve into even more powerful computing resources that are ubiquitous and always present, ON the individual, maybe even IN the individual.  While still considered too “over-the-top”, the insertion of Radio Frequency IDentification chips beneath the skin of individuals could be common in the future.  I have read magazine articles telling me how to implement under skin RFID chips to allow specially designed computers to recognize the RFID carrying individual and automatically obtain password credentials form the RFID.  It is common practice now to insert RFID chips in our pets so that they may be identified at veterinary offices when the pet wanders off and becomes lost.

Similarly nano-technology is nascent. We could be swallowing pills, or receiving injections, of nano-robotic machines that travel through our bodies delivering medicines to specific internal body sites, or performing even mechanical repairs using nano-tools.  How could this affect the church?  I don’t know, but who would have thought in 1990 everyone in a worship service would have powerful computers capable of communicating with GPS satellites in their pockets and purses?!

I think social norms will also continue to change.  Some of these changes may be good, but generally, there will be problems for the church to deal with the changes.  If you had conjectured with church attenders in the 1950’s that in 2010, people would regularly attend church wearing athletic shorts and T-shirts to listen to rock-themed worship music played on electric guitars, they would have thought you were crazy.  Today, that type of dress and music is exactly what draws some previously un-churched people to worship!  However, the church must also find a balance in not abandoning more traditional worshipers.  In addition, there needs to be some balance in the church influencing society and not just being influenced by society.

When asked by my Pastor to dream about the next twenty years at COR, here are a few of the thoughts I contemplated:

  •  Charging stations for electric cars that are parked during Worship Services. (This could also be a source of revenue…..) 
  • The ability to register your attendance using your phone, PDA, or your IDD (Internal Digital Device) eliminating current manual data entry.   
  • The ability to transfer funds from your bank account(s) to COR’s account(s) in real time during a worship service, from your smart phone, thus eliminating manual data entry and a great deal of the Church’s bookkeeping  function.
  • 3D projection of video content
  • Assistive technologies for the blind and hearing impaired. (BTW: Why doesn’t COR have sign language interpreters for the hearing impaired now?)
  • Greater challenges discerning the eternal truths of scripture from culture-of-the-time norms that no longer apply.  This may develop into needing to operate as more than one church: those that wish to stick to traditional beliefs and those that want to change with societal changes.  The challenge of homosexual inclusion is only the beginning.
  • Dealing with an older average age congregation. 
  • Dealing with individuals and the general concept of bio-engineered body parts.  It could be that actual identity confirmation will be difficult because people will be able to completely modify their appearance and body capabilities, like youthfulness appearance. 
  • Assimilation of even a greater number of faltering/failing UMC congregations 
  • The establishment of an internet “country code” for people who have one phone number, and it is a voice over IP phone number.  They may then receive phone calls from any phone on earth. 
  • Maybe not in 20 years, but maybe in 20 years after that, there will be regular COR-Lunar or COR-Mars worship services! 
  • Perhaps in 20 years there will be less need to physically travel to a specific geographic location to participate in small groups, rehearsals, or even worship services.  The “church building” may be wherever each of its members and visitors are at the time.  Attendance might be virtual, with participants from all over the world participating interactively at the “worship site” just as if they were physically there.  It may be possible to even “shake hands” and otherwise “feel-the- presence” of the other participants even though they might be several thousand miles away. 
  • Even though these imaginative dreams might actually happen, it is also very likely that the age old problems of humanity will still be daily challenges to overcome.  People will still misunderstand communications.  People will still have difficulty treating others in a manner they would like to be treated.  Sin will still separate us from right relationship with God.  We will still need to recognize our sinful state, repent, seek forgiveness, and be thankful for God’s unfathomable grace…….  I look forward to the future!

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Grace Thoughts

The following letter was sent to my faith community, Indian Heights United Methodist Church, shortly after recovering from robot assisted surgery to remove my cancerous prostate gland. Some experiences shortly after surgery had a profound impact on me, and I wanted to share the experience, and be thankful, with my fellow "Christ followers".

The letter found its way into our church newsletter and was well received. Over the following weeks a number of church members related to me how much the letter meant to them. I wanted to memorialize the letter before I lost it or forgot what I had said. Consequently, it appears below:

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18 June 2010


Dear Friends at IHUMC,

I have recently been blessed by your loving kindness while I was hospitalized and during my recovery at home. The phone calls, get well cards, visits, and provided meal for my family, were very comforting and certainly expressed your care for me in a powerful manner. I also coveted and enjoyed your prayer support; your messages were communicated to me by the Holy Spirit on multiple occasions. I am very fortunate to live in such a loving community of believers.

I want to share with you an experience I had on the Sunday following my surgery. While thinking about the events of recent weeks I was overwhelmed by the application of a mountain of Grace. Over a matter of a few minutes I recognized I was so very fortunate to have been given:

  • Modern technology that permits early detection and low-invasive surgical removal of cancer.
  • Due to the advances in robot assisted surgery, a comparatively easy recuperation.
  • Physicians, both primary care and urologic specialists, who are not only very talented women, but also compassionate in their work.
  • The ability to have health insurance so that I can afford the good care.
  • A job where I can take time to be sick, be healed, recuperate and not be penalized for needing the time to heal me.
  • Caring work associates who can pick up my share of work while I am recuperating.
  • Clients who understand my need to be healed and are patient while I take the time away from their needs.
  • An incredible wife, who can continue to operate our business, our household, take care of my parents, babysit our grandson, prepare meals, deal with a flooded basement, prepare for VBS, and STILL provide loving care in excess of what I need.
  • A loving daughter that happily augments Sandy's care.
  • IHUMC friends who will send me cards of encouragement, visit, and help with whatever I have asked them to do.
  • But most importantly, I was reminded,......powerfully...... that God loves me, and because of his undeserved grace, I have a ransomed soul.

I discussed with both Rev. Cheryl and Betty B. the way that IHUMC has supported me and my family can only be described as a modern day miracle: The miracle of Christian fellowship. Unless a person is involved in a Christian community like IHUMC, he/she simply can't recognize the value of that support.

Thank you for so many examples of "miracle working" over recent weeks. I am positive I am unable to express fully how much your prayers and support meant to me.

Blessed by Grace,

Mark Campbell
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I still feel very fortunate. I AM having to deal with some expected and normal side effects of radical prostate surgery, such as incontinence and impotence. The incontinence has already improved significantly. The impotence...... well no progress, yet. I am told to be patient; it may take up to a year for some of the damaged nerves to heal. It is also possible the side effect may be permanent. I certainly hope that possibility does NOT become true. Regardless of the side effects, I remain thankful to live in these times and to have received the continuing opportunities of a rather normal life, post-cancer.

Subsequent to my surgery, two friends, one from church and one from Optimist club have been diagnosed with prostate cancer and are facing similar surgery decisions. I hope and pray their passage through this life changing challenge is as good as mine.

Grace. The unmerited good will delivered in small, and sometimes great, ways. It is a very deep concept to think about. My thoughts return to the grace I receive on a daily basis. I hope these thoughts help me be more of a grace "agent" to those around me.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Shower Thoughts

In what environment do you solve problems the best? Work? Home? Your desk? In bed?(!)

I have found that the most productive place for me to come up with innovative, or at least good, solutions to problems that are vexxing me is........ in the shower! Multiple times I have been pondering a problem for which I have no solution, or solutions already considered just don't seem to be satisfactory. Not intending to actually take a shower to solve the problem, many times a great solution comes to me while I am in the sower stall, at home.

This amuses me to no end. What about the shower environment causes my thought processes to enter a better problem solving state of mind? Humidity? Warm water caressing my head? "Coming clean"? A psychological return to my embryonic start of life? Who knows! I am very happy with the solutions that have been an epiphany in the shower. Certainly, I have a plethora of other problems that have had no shower solution; it does not work on command, unfortunately. However, there have been enough problems solved while showering that I look forward to the next time it DOES happen!

I am also amused that other people have related to me, unprompted, that they solved a particular problem while taking a shower. My attorney/friend/client, Jeff R., related to me just this past week that he realized an important fact in a case while he was taking his morning shower. We compared notes and found that the experience is common for both of us.

How about you? Have you solved knotty problems while taking a shower? Is there another place or activity that is an uncanny solution source for you? Please tell me about it.

Problem solving in the shower. You might agree that this is a good place for solving problems. On the other hand, you may think this idea is all wet....... You may be right!

Friday, April 2, 2010

Life Changing Thoughts

On Wednesday 31 March 2010 Sandy and I met with Dr. Susan Sweat to review my prostate biopsy results. The needle biopsy samples were taken on Thursday 25 March 2010 using Trans-Rectal Ultrasound guided method.

The pathologist analyses revealed that 2 out of 12 samples contained adenocarcinoma (cancer) cells, and one tumor appeared to be 1 mm across while one appeared to be 0.3 mm across. The Gleason score for each sample was reported as 6 (possible scores range from 2 to 10). The Gleason score is am indication of the aggressiveness of the cancer.

Adenocarcinoma is the most common form of prostate cancer. We appear to be catching the cancer at an early stage.

My PSA scores had been: 4.5 in May 2009, 5 in July 2009, 7 in October 2009, and 6.8 in February 2010. It was not only the elevated PSA, but also the rate of change with time that indicated a biopsy was necessary.

We discussed several treatment options with Dr. Sweat. We have planned to perform a robot assisted prostatectomy in early June 2010, so that some already planned activities (trip to Phoenix/Prescott, AZ) could be completed before surgery.

Dr. Sweat discussed the potential side effects with us. All of the normal concerns about surgical procedures apply to this planned surgery. In addition, there are also possible side effects of impotence and incontinence. Both of these are pretty big negatives to me. Dr. Sweat indicated that the side effects would be less likely because of my age, but more likely because of my over-weight. Consequently, I am on an even more intense program of weight control and improved fitness.

I have also decided to delay telling my parents about the diagnosis and planned surgery until mid-May 2010, hoping to spare them more weeks of fretting about the conditions and plans.

Update 2 April 2010

The doctor’s office called today to schedule the surgery. I will be admitted into Shawnee Mission Medical Center on 8 June 2010 to have surgery via Robot Assisted laparoscopic surgery late morning. I will stay at least one night, maybe two. I will have a catheter in place for about two weeks while my urethra re-attaches to my bladder.

This event has reminded me of my mortality and the importance of maintaining one's health. I have been instructed by Dr. Sweat that I would recover better and have a lower chance of side effects if I were in better shape. Thus I have made an internal commitment to concentrate on improving my fitness before 8 June 2010.

This has been a tough year for me, healthwise: diagnosed as having sleep apnea in Spring 2009 and starting CPAP machine use nightly, diagnosed as diabetic in June 2009 and changing diet and exercise to respond to that challenge, an elevated PSA level started my march toward prostate cancer surgery, a kidney stone in October 2009, and now prostate cancer and taking action to minimize the chances of it killing me. It has not been easy on Sandy, either. Her first husband died of cancer when he was 56 turning 57. My prognosis is very good, but the similarities are disconcerting. She also feels that I do not take good enough care of my health, and my health problems DO affect her.

It is (past) time for me to change the direction of my overall health. I will try to post some positive news about my fitness level before June!